Women Giving Blessings in the Early LDS Church

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by Heather@Women in the Scriptures

This is the second in a series by our writers and guests regarding spiritual gifts. We hope you enjoy our take on giving and receiving spiritually this Christmas season.

On the first Sunday of the month there is not an assigned lesson topic for Relief Society. Instead it is up to the prayerful discretion of the Relief Society Presidency to choose a message their sisters need to hear. This month it was my turn to teach (I am the first counselor in our presidency) and as I was praying about what the Lord wanted me to teach I felt strongly that I should teach on healing. There are several women in our church who are going through hard physical challenges and it seemed like this would be a good topic to address. As I was preparing my lesson Sister Beck’s words kept coming to mind.

… the sisters of the Church should know and learn from the history of the Relief Society. Understanding the history of Relief Society strengthens the foundational identity and worth of faithful women.

I realized that in my lesson about healing I should talk about the history of women giving blessings in the Church.

I have to admit that I was nervous about talking about this part of Relief Society history. It is a topic that most women have never heard of and if they have they either feel nervous or angry about it because they don’t understand it. I was worried someone would misunderstand me and think I was teaching false doctrine. Yet as I pondered and prepared my lesson the spirit kept nudging me that the women in my ward really needed to understand this part of their heritage. So I fasted and prayed that the Lord would be able to convey my lesson so that women would feel the spirit and understand the principles behind it. I shouldn’t have been nervous; the spirit did a great job of teaching and the meeting was amazing.

I started my lesson by splitting the chalkboard in half and writing Priesthood Administration to the Sick on one side and The Gift of Healing on the other half. I then told the women that my lesson would be on these two types of healing and we would talk about how they were different and how they were similar. I wanted to make it clear that these are two different types of administrations. I started by focusing on Priesthood Administration and I invited a member of the Elder’s Quorum Presidency to come in and talk to us about priesthood blessings— how they are given, rules and procedures they follow, how it feels to give one, how they prepare for them, and some of his personal experiences giving blessings. He did a wonderful job and really taught us many things that we didn’t know about how priesthood blessings are given. He just reinforced my gratitude for the amazing power of the priesthood in my life.

After he was finished I then had the sisters turn their attention to the other type of healing, The Gift of Healing, and had them read D&C 84: 64-68 which says (emphasis added):

Therefore, as I said unto my apostles I say unto you again, that every soul who believeth on your words, and is baptized by water for the remission of sins, shall receive the Holy Ghost. And these signs shall follow them that believe. In my name they shall do many wonderful works; In my name they shall cast out devils; In my name they shall heal the sick

The gift to heal is a gift given, at the Lord’s discretion, to ALL followers of Christ and it doesn’t matter whether they are male or female. It is a gift of the spirit, and like all gifts of the spirit, is bestowed upon whom He will, male and female. Women in the early days of the church often participated in healing as demonstrations of faith. Women most commonly administered by laying on of hands to their children but were sometimes called to administer to those outside of their families. One of the most common uses of women’s blessings was to wash, anoint, and bless a woman’s body before childbirth. Women who gave blessings never claimed priesthood power but always closed their blessings in the name of Jesus Christ. It is also important to note that these blessings were not related to temple ordinances and women were cautioned not to use language learned in the temple.

The practice of women giving blessings originated with Joseph Smith and the first Relief Society in Nauvoo. At the 6th meeting of the Relief Society on April 28th, 1843, Joseph instructed the sisters about the spiritual gifts mentioned in 1 Corinthians 12 and stated that the gift to heal was a gift of the spirit, one that followed all the believers whether they were male or female. Eliza R. Snow recorded that Joseph said:

Respecting females administering for the healing of the sick… there could be no evil in it, if God gave His sanction by healing; that there could be no more sin in any female laying hands on and praying for the sick, than in wetting the face with water; it is no sin for anybody to administer that has faith, or if the sick have faith to be healed by their administrations. (History of the Church, volume 4, pg. 604)

It is important to note that Joseph Smith clarified that women had the gift to heal and administer because of their faith and not because of their priesthood authority. Joseph reiterated what Jesus taught in Mark 16:17 that “these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name… they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.”

There are several beautiful stories of women administering to each other. One of my favorites is that of Sister Persis Young, who administered to nineteen-year-old Helen Mar Kimball Whitney who had recently lost her first child in death, and the birthing had left her weak with infection. Fasting, several of the sisters had met at Helen’s mother’s house to pray for her return to health, but the meeting had ended abruptly. Helen remembered:

I, being very weary and sad in spirit at the close of the day, had lain down, and I fell asleep… I was quite young, and not having been healed as I had been told I should be, my faith was considerably shaken.

Morning came, and with it, Persis Young. “She had been impressed by the Spirit to come and administer to me,” wrote Helen:

and I would be healed; that she could not sleep, and she had come there in obedience to that Spirit. She had been so long under its influence that she shook as though palsied when she laid her hands upon my head with my mother. She rebuked my weakness, and every disease that had been, or was then, afflicting me, and commanded me to be made whole, pronouncing health and many other blessings upon me… From that morning I went about to work as though nothing had been the matter. Thus did the Lord remember one if His unworthy handmaidens and fulfill the promise that had been given by the gift and power of the Holy Ghost.” Women of Covenant: The Story of the Relief Society, (pg 67)

Betsy Jane Tenny Loose Simons, a widow living in Quincy, Illinois, once recorded how when her son was very ill she “longed for an Elder or someone holding the Priesthood, that the disease might be rebuked.” She had no one and as her son’s condition got worse and worse she recorded that,

All at once as distinct as though someone had spoken to me, [a voice said] “Why don’t you administer to him yourself?” I was anxious for my lady friend to depart that I might administer as the spirit directed. In a few moments she left… Alone I could unburden my heart and pour out my soul in earnest prayer to my Father in heaven. Kneeling by the bed on which lay my dying child, it should be an evidence to me that it was my duty to sell my home and come to the valley… I administered to him and he was healed.” (Mormon Sisters: Women in Early Utah, pg 23)

Blessings like these were given fairly commonly up until the 1920’s when the practice began to get confused with temple ordinances and priesthood authority. Many women felt confusion over the purpose of these blessings and so the practiced slowly started to die out. Then in 1946 Joseph Fielding Smith circulated a letter to Relief Societies which said,

While the authorities of the Church have ruled that it is permissible, under certain conditions and with the approval of the priesthood, for sisters to wash and anoint other sisters, yet they feel that it is far better to follow the plan the Lord has given us and send for the Elders of the Church to come and minister to the sick and afflicted. (Mormon Sisters, pg 18)

President Smith was referring to section 42 of the Doctrine and Covenants, which is where the Lord outlined the “law of the church.” In D&C 42:43 the Lord instructed Joseph Smith in the preferred way to administer to the sick, He said, “And the elders of the church, two or more, shall be called, and shall pray for and lay their hands upon them in my name…” Today this pattern is still followed and calling in the elders to give a blessings by the laying on of hands is still the Lord’s preferred way of blessing the sick.

While it is not encouraged today for LDS women to lay their hands on each other’s heads or give blessings that mimic priesthood administrations, we can still utilize the gift of to heal on each other’s behalf. This gift of the spirit has never been taken away from women; the only thing that has changed is the method of administration. In all three places where the gifts of the spirit are listed it is mentioned how the administration (the outward physical application) of these gifts can change over time but how the gift remains the same.

Moroni 10:8 says, “And there are different ways that these gifts are administered; but it is the same God who worketh all in all…”

1 Corinthians 12:5 says, “…there are differences of administrations, but the same Lord.”

D&C 46:15 says, “And again, to some it is given by the Holy Ghost to know the differences of administration, as it will be pleasing unto the same Lord, according as the Lord will, suiting his mercies according to the conditions of the children of men.”

Women in the LDS church no longer administer the gift of healing by the laying on hands but instead adminster in many diverse ways. In Women of Covenant: The Story of the Relief Society the authors explain how since the 1940’s women have still administered to one another. They said,

Individually and collectively, Latter-day Saint women…continue to draw upon other gifts of the Spirit- faith, hope, wisdom and knowledge- to provide in another form the same “blessing of one sister to another” and to extend that blessing to men, women, and children outside of their sisterhood. The greatest of these gifts, charity…endure[s] as the essence of Relief Society.”

As I discussed the gift of healing with the women in my ward we realized that women in the church are still administering to each other and to our families every day. Women administer this gift when they use their faith, prayers and fasting on someone’s behalf, when they give loving words, hugs, kisses, provide meals for a family, care for children, share their wisdom and knowledge, give healing touch, meet material needs, listen to the spirit to understand unique needs, write words of blessing and encouragement, and physically be with people through their trials. These gifts of the spirit, these methods of administration, are not any less powerful or meaningful than the washings and anointings that the women in the early church performed. It was beautiful to hear the women in my ward testify of ways in which they had ministered healing to people or ways in which they had been ministered to by other women.

The gift is the same, it is only the method of administration that is different.

  • How do women in your life administer the gift of healing?
  • How have you been the recipient of that gift?

Image credit: Ellis Shipp (teaching midwifery 1875-1896), Utah State Historical Society; Elder Joseph Fielding Smith (ordained 1910)

About Heather@Women in the Scriptures

I am a scripture loving, baby snuggling, chicken raising, modern dancing, garden growing, home birthing, doula working, fast swimming, muffin loving, Mormon wife, mother, sister, and daughter.

19 Responses to Women Giving Blessings in the Early LDS Church

  1. Julia Taylor says:

    I had several experiences, where I have been asked to pray before receiving a priesthood blessing, and I have come to believe that by praying, out loud, with the men who are about to anoint and bless me brings greater power. I can’t lay my hands on my head, but a priesthood holder can’t do that either. The blessing can only be given by the one who has his hand on my head, and is speaking for The Lord. For me, that has become the secondary, or the confirming part of most blessings.

    A number of times, after that prayer has finished, the person there to give the blessing has asked if I still wanted it, since my words seemed to be those of inspiration and healing. I always say yes, I do want the blessings, both for the ratification and approval of my Heavenly Father on those things I prayed for, but also because I want all of the light and knowledge God is willing to give me at that time, so that I can hear in the words of the blessing or the whisperings of the Holy Ghost, more detailed instructions to remember going forward.

    My stepfather was the first person who ever asked me to be the one to say a prayer before I, or my children, are blessed. After several conversations about how much easier it is for him, as the one speaking through inspiration, that my prayer allows Heavenly Father, and the person acting in His name, to affirm my faith, love and testimony. Now, even if I do not know the person well who will be giving me the blessing, I ask to be able to pray, before I am administered to.

    • Heather Farrell says:

      Julia I love that you have had these experiences. Not long ago I had a smilar experience giving a prayers. I felt that I could promise something to someone and that it would happen. I knew with a certainty that it was okay for me to say and that if I said it it would happen. It scared me because I didn’t feel like I could say it. I felt like I didn’t have the right to. So I didn’t. Afterward I regretted it and felt like I missed out on something. When I talked to my husband about it he said that is what it feels like to have the Lord speak through you when you are giving a blessing. You know that you are saying something that you don’t have the power to do but which the Lord can and is willing to. I realized then that the gift to bless is really a gift of the spirit and just because women don’t ADMINISTER the same way that men do that they too have spiritual gifts and they are POWERFUL!

      • Julia Taylor says:

        Heather, yes that is exactly what it feels like. I have learned first through those prayers, and then through other experiences that I sometimes as chosen to speak for Heavenly Father because *I* am the one who is there, is in tune with the Holy Ghost, and willing to be His mouthpiece.
        I actually fleshed it out some, and add some specific things that I usually include in my prayers, for a post on my own blog. I hope you don’t mind, but I would like to use your comment, attributed to you of course, in that post. It will go up on Sunday, and I will include the link to your blog in that attribution. Let me know if you object. (If you want to check out my blog poetrysansonions.com)

      • Bonnie says:

        Heather, this is a vital point. If we are to develop the spirit of prophecy or healing or wisdom or many other gifts, we must learn to sense the boundaries of stewardship, knowing what to say, how to say it, and when, after we have developed a profound confidence in the voice of the Lord. It’s a beautiful tension, but an important one for us to begin to navigate if we are to truly USE these wonderful gifts! So glad you added this point.

      • Julia Taylor says:

        I thought you might be interested in seeing the extension of my thoughts here, in this post:


    • Raeann Peck says:

      Julia, and Heather, I too have felt impressed to ask such prayers before receiving a Priesthood blessing. Somewhere in the scriptures…..the D&C?…..is a scripture saying that prayer should precede a priesthood administration. The prayers have felt inspired; the yearning of my soul, reaching the heavens, and the heavens reaching back. After receiving a blessing under the hands and authority of the Holy Priesthood, I’ve felt to offer a prayer of gratitude and thanks to God for His blessings, and for those who serve in His stead.

  2. jendoop says:

    Throughout reading I kept thinking that if more women knew this they could understand that we have real power “to heal and to bless”, as the song Sisters in Zion reminds us. If we knew and understood this our visiting teaching, our lessons, our callings, our friendships would have an even greater impact on the world. We sometimes shrink, thinking that real action and power only comes from men – as you’ve pointed out that is a complete misunderstanding. God has given us a mandate to help and heal. He wouldn’t do that without also giving us the power to do it.

    I like how this post points out that the rich gifts of women can work with the priesthood to bless all. I hope there will be a post that talks about gifts of the priesthood too, I’d like some insight into how a priesthood holder sees this relationship and how spiritual gifts are part of the priesthood, or interact with it.

  3. Paul says:

    This is a fascinating post. I’m intrigued that what you describe as more modern administration of this gift might also be considered minsistering, which has, of course, been the topic of a great deal of discussion from church leaders in the last ten or fifteen years.

    • Heather Farrell says:

      Ooh, I love that connection to the word MINISTERING. It really is the same thing but we don’t think about it that way.

  4. Curtis DeGraw says:

    I believe strongly that we have narrowed “healing” and “blessing” unnecessarily to Priesthood ordinances with consecrated oil.

    We have a tradition of father’s blessings, and no Priesthood need be invoked there. I can see no theological or doctrinal reason why we can’t have mother’s blessings, as long as no Priesthood authority is invoked – or prayers of healing that involve “the laying on of hands” in non-formal ways and also do not invoke Priesthood authority. (for example, a woman or cradling a chlid in her arms and “praying over” that chlid – or women gathering in a circle and holding hands to pray for someone) Those parental blessings need not be confined to members, since all men and women are children of God and can pray in faith to their Father.

    I also believe in “the laying on of hands” in very practical, non-formal ways that echo Paul’s description of “ministering”. To put it in the words of Pres. Uchtdorf, women can be “the hands of Christ” just as well as men can be – and, in many cases, better.
    I would have loved to have been a part of this lesson and will forward it to some leaders whom I know will understand and appreciate it.

    • Bonnie says:

      Ray, you are absolutely right. I have many times placed my hands over injuries or sore spots and prayed over my children. It is strange to think that we can rub something and it feels better and not wonder that there is healing in our touch. Add to that the prayer of faith and the ability to perceive the intents of God in someone’s need and you have a powerful formula for healing. It in no way diminishes the power of the priesthood that we can pray, but as you say, it is far from limited to it. Blessings are given to bring comfort to God’s children because he adores them, not to aggrandize any one individual.

  5. Heather – I thought you might be interested in a quote by Elder James E. Talmage on the subject of women and the priesthood in the LDS Church. Please feel free to comment here or on my blog. Thanks.

    • A Mormon Friend says:

      That quote was part of the leadership movement that removed the perceived privleges women had once enjoyed for decades within the church. This article gives a very through history of the evolution of ideas which removed once enjoyed healing practices. http://www.dialoguejournal.com/wp-content/uploads/sbi/articles/Dialogue_V18N03_23.pdf

      For the record, healing is a gift given to all God’s children. Some have a greater dose than others but if you look outside your world, there are many people who facilitate healing with the laying on of hands and another healing arts. Its not even limited to Mormon… or christians. God provides for all his children. Faith and love are important components though. You can learn that just by looking at what actually goes on in the world. (other churches, faith healings, healing arts like Reiki, etc..) As Jesus said, those that are not against us are with us. and… By their fruits ye shall know them. Jesus heals.

  6. I absolutely LOVE this lesson.

    I would love to share it with my own Relief Society, if I may?

    I have just been baptized this past spring. At that point, I was compelled to write about my conversion as it is happening.
    My “conversion testimony blog” is here, if anyone is interested: SlightelyMormon.blogspot.com

    Again, thank you SO MUCH for this lesson!!! I am learning SO MUCH from Sisters out here! Thank you for writing and sharing this. Your Spiritual Gift for teaching is GLORIOUS!
    Praise be to God! Blessings upon you and yours!

  7. M says:

    I really enjoyed this article. It helped me make sense of some questions that were lingering in my mind. I do have on question that you might shed light on. I remember being taught that fathers can give “fathers blessing” without invoking the priesthood, but still by laying on of hands. Couldn’t the same be said about being able to give a mothers blessing? Or maybe I am thinking about this the wrong way.

    • Bonnie says:

      I had a conversation recently with my young adult son, who is the oldest priesthood holder in our family, and who was struggling with overpowering anxiety at the time, in which I gently told him that a blessing and a prayer are very similar things and a mother’s prayer is a special prayer that, like a blessing, reaches the throne of God based on the worthiness and faith of those involved. We prayed together and his anxiety fled and he was left at peace. My personal opinion is that neither men nor women are superior to one another in their prayers or in their possession of the gift of healing (which is sometimes used by either through touch) but that we are gifted with both priesthood and gifts of healing so that we will employ those gifts for one another, binding ourselves to those whom we serve and God in spirit-sanctified pleas for relief, understanding, and consecration. I think one could give mother’s blessings, and I have, but the spirit in which they are given and the understandings of those involved are crucial. Humility is always our first prerequisite.

  8. s says:

    Thank you so much for this post! I have recently had gifts of healing exercised upon me by a couple different women I know who are faithful members in the church. I had some difficult things in my life that were troubling my spirit and hindering me in my life. These sisters (individually at different times) were very in tune with their spiritual gift of healing and were able to, by tuning into my spirit and to God’s, receive enlightenment and understanding of the negative deep-held emotions and incorrect beliefs I had stored in me and were able to release those by prayer in the name of Christ.
    As I listened to the words they spoke and felt the pure power of healing in me, I knew it was a process of God. But when I told certain members of my family they were very hesitant about it and put doubt in my mind. I read the scriptures and prayed and I felt that it was still good and of God because those sisters acknowledged God and His authority.
    But again I was confronted with doubtfulness and I wondered more. I did a prayerful search and found your post. It was just what I needed! It restored my faith in women’s ability to exercise the gift of healing. Thank you!

  9. Rachel says:

    I loved this post so much. Thank you for sharing. I am so grateful someone was willing to take the time to study the history and the doctrine with such love and faith. These are topics that are hard to discuss in church because so few of us know much about them. Thank you for shedding light!

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